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Memorial | Keep remembrance private

A private memorial guide for Chinese communities abroad

Grief needs a quiet place. XinAn Memorial is a private space visible only to you: create a memorial profile for someone important, remember them on Qingming, an anniversary or Zhongyuan — without publicity and without performing grief.

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Why private remembrance matters

Qingming and anniversaries remind us to remember the departed while cherishing the living. Remembrance is not for display; it gives grief a place to rest. For people abroad, one serious ritual can hold what distance takes away.

Who it is for

  • People abroad who cannot travel home for Qingming or an anniversary
  • People who do not want to share grief on public social media
  • Anyone who wants a lasting, quiet place to remember
  • Families who want shared memorial dates and reminders

How it works

① Create a memorial profile: name and relationship are required; photo, dates and words are optional → ② choose offerings or a background when you wish → ③ leave words in your private space → ④ set reminders for birthdays, anniversaries, Qingming or Zhongyuan.

A public guide is not a public memorial

This website guide can be searched and read. A memorial you create in the app does not become a public web page, public memorial wall or searchable link. We do not use real deceased people's names, photos or stories in examples; consider family wishes and privacy before creating one.

You control your information

  • Name and relationship are used to create your private memorial; photos, dates and words are optional
  • You can manage memorial information in your account and use the account process to request an export or deletion
  • Private memorial words and photos are not used in public assets, search snippets or marketing materials

Things to know

  • Memorial profiles are visible only to you and create no public links
  • No shared family management or public message walls
  • The memorial table starts empty; offerings appear only when you choose them
  • We never use death or guilt to push any action

What XinAn offers

A private memorial profile, optional photos and words, a quiet space, and memorial reminders. The memorial page avoids hard selling; its main actions are offerings and backgrounds.

Frequently asked questions

Can anyone else see my memorial?

No. Memorial profiles and words are private by default and create no public links.

Can I add a photo of the deceased?

Yes, optionally. The photo is visible only to you and never enters public assets or analytics events.

What is the difference between Memorial and Worship?

Worship is a daily space for deities; Memorial is a private space for remembering a person. They are separate.

Can I export or delete my information?

You can manage information through the account's export and deletion processes. Confirm the scope before submitting; the current account page explains any handling that must be retained by law.

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